My response to Traceys post http://chocolatejug.blogspot.com/

Hi Tracey, In your post you say that the emotional side of cheating, and not just the physical act of cheating is the problem. I agree, I think that it is the act of being deceptive to your partner. Whether that's exchanging messages on a networking site and pretending you are single or having sex with another person, to me, there is no difference. I believe if you make a commitment to be honest and/or not sleep with other people, then you should. If you don't want to, don't make the commitment!